Just out of interest, what would you want from a fetish night?

Me n Jamie were having this conversation yesterday, and we've come to the conclusion that we enjoyed going to the whoopie club burlesque night more than any fetish night we went to because the dressing up was better. People can be so dismissive at fetish nights if your fetish doesn't fit into their world view (i.e. cheesy 80s leather/pvc/goth). It would be better if they themed them, than everyone would know where they stood.